Every month, I try to visit my late friend Diane at the columbarium where her remains have been laid to rest. I make it an event for the both of us.
I started my day with an early morning walk.
Then, I had a streetfood classic for brekkie: chilimansi (chili calamansi) pancit canton with a huge bun and sunny-side up egg.
It was a breakfast that Diane would approve of. I eventually turned it into a pancit sandwich.
I was still hungry so I had a small serving of taho for Php10. It was the perfect ending to a blissful morning meal.
I wrapped up my walk and bought my favorite French Vanilla from a nearby convenience store. Diane and I loved to have coffee back in the day so I still continue the tradition to this day.
I finally reached the columbarium. I set up a cozy nook in front of Diane’s vault.
I usually bring an ebook or a book, my Traveler’s Notebook, and the aforementioned coffee.
Being with Diane can be a time-warp as I enjoy reading by her side.
I also share with her my latest food trips and sketches (which are usually of food).
I also update her with the latest on my life, my blog, and my fitness journey. She used to be a fitness buff at some point so I would like to think that she is cheering me on from wherever she is now!
I read The First to Know by Abigail Johnson during my visit. The protagonist is a softball player who’s growing up and discovering love, and I think Diane would have enjoyed this too.
I was comforted by a brown butterfly which flew in front of me as I was reading and sipping my coffee.
Hi Diane! 🦋
If you want some quiet time to read and simply relax, why don’t you visit your late loved ones every now and then? Turn it into a mini event so you will be motivated to do so. Who knows, you might also get to know yourself better through the loving gaze of your loved ones!